Ever wonder what would happen if you just said, 'Screw it, I’m going for it'? Spoiler alert: magic happens. The kind of magic that transforms dreams into reality, fears into fuel, and “what ifs” into “hell yes.”
Here’s the truth: Your boldest life isn’t waiting for you at the end of some distant journey. It’s one decision away—one choice to stop overthinking and start owning your power. Let’s talk about how to get there.
The Myth of “Perfect Timing”
Let’s bust a big fat lie we’ve all been sold: the idea of “perfect timing.”Here’s the deal—perfect timing doesn’t exist. You know what does? Now. Right now.
Waiting for the stars to align, your fear to disappear, or the universe to hand you a neon green sign that says “GO FOR IT”? It’s not gonna happen. The stars? They’re already aligned. The universe? It’s waiting for you to take the first step.
Why Waiting = Wasting:
The longer you wait, the further you drift from the life you actually want.
Fear thrives on delay. The more you hesitate, the bigger your doubts become.
Ask yourself: What’s one thing I’ve been waiting on that I could start today? Spoiler: The moment you stop waiting, momentum kicks in—and it’s unstoppable.
How to Tap Into Your Fearless Self
Here’s the good news: Your fearless self? She’s already in there. She’s just waiting for you to let her take the wheel.
How to Find Her:
Flip the Script on FearMost of the time, fear doesn’t mean “stop”—it means “you’re onto something big.”Next time fear pops up, ask yourself: Is this fear trying to protect me from something real, or is it just scared of change?Nine times out of ten, it’s the latter. Thank it for its concern and move forward anyway.
Act First, Confidence FollowsHere’s a little secret: You don’t have to feel 100% confident to act. In fact, bold action is often the very thing that creates confidence. Start messy, start unsure—just start.
Channel Your Inner Power PersonaImagine the most badass version of yourself—the one who doesn’t hesitate, doesn’t doubt, and owns every room she walks into. What would she do in this moment? Do that.
Real-Life Bold Moves That Paid Off
Bold moves have a way of snowballing into big wins. Here’s some proof:
Client Story: One of my clients (let’s call her Sarah) was stuck in a relationship that drained her soul. For years, she waited for “the right time” to leave. One day, she finally said, “Screw it,” and took the leap. Was she scared? Absolutely. But now she has a sense of worthiness and power, that she did not have before and she called in her equal, someone who loves and adores her a partnership she dreamed of.
My Own Bold Move: I had a business but wanted to leave my 9-5 to do it full time. I thought I would be clever and take 6 months of long service with the intent to not go back, but life stepped in and made that impossible. Because I still had my foot in the safe zone, I didn't fully surrender and trust. I was playing it safe. After being back at my day job I couldn't energetically bear it so I leapt. I took a bold leap of faith, and here we are today.
The common thread? They didn’t wait for permission. They acted, trusted, and watched the magic unfold.
Your Turn
So here’s the big question for YOU:
If you knew you couldn’t fail, what’s the one thing you’d start today?
Write it down. Feel it. Own it. Then make a choice—just one—that brings you closer to that vision. Your boldest life isn’t waiting for the “right moment.” It’s waiting for you to decide it’s yours.
The truth is, boldness doesn’t just change your life—it transforms the way you see yourself. When you choose to step into your power, you’re not just saying yes to a dream—you’re saying yes to YOU.
So what’s it gonna be? One bold decision is all it takes. Let today be the day you go for it. 💥
Erin Sharwood
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